Rheumatoid Arthritis Treatment

I was diagnosed with osteo years ago, but lately I’ve had severe swelling in my ankles and knees, with fluid retention, I thougt that was only with rheumatoid.

I’m a 60-year-old person with rheumatoid arthritis. I’m tapering off 20mg Oxycontin per day and would like to take something for the breakthrough pain. Tylenol with Codiene (Tylenol #1) has worked in the past, but I don’t want to double up on the Codiene if they’re the same thing. Thanks for your help.

I am 23 in the military overseas and as such I have been away from my family back home for several years.
My grandparents took a huge part in raising me, but now they are all passed on. My real father left before I was born, so my grandfather was my father, and I loved him as one. February of this year he died of complications from Melanoma while in a diabetic coma.
I used to call him every day and now I feel at such a loss and I cannot stop grieving, thinking of him, in his broken state and the terrible suffering he put up with from all the drugs, the chemotherapy and his rheumatoid arthritis.
The thing that kills me the most is, being a guy, I don’t think that I ever really put it to him how important he was to me. He was very much an abandoned person, he lived alone after my grandmother passed for 8 years.
Now I cannot sleep, I am afraid to sleep from the continuous nightmares about him and others that plague me. What can I do? How can I ever come to terms with his death?