Rheumatoid Arthritis Treatment

I’m in severe pain due to rheumatoid arthritis, an im also young. I’m 24 but everytime i go to the Dr. for something pain he’ll precribed me narctotic pain relievers but only 5mg or he’ll tell me to take alieve or something. The problem is i literitly have to take (3) 5/500 Dolacet to feel ANY pain relief. The pills he precribes me dont relieve any pain so i either have to take 3 of them or drink alcohol to intestsify the Dolacet . But he acts like i only want to for fun or something. Has anyone else had the same problem? I think its because im young and male that he thinks im just useing them to get high or sell or something.